Your Profile is Your First Love Letter Here’s How to Write It Well

Think of your dating profile as your first love letter except this one doesn’t need to be perfect. It just needs to be true. Especially in international dating, where culture and communication norms vary, clarity and authenticity are the foundation of smart romance.

Here’s how to create a profile that stands out for all the right reasons.

1. Write like a real person, not a résumé.
Avoid buzzwords like “fun,” “loyal,” “ambitious.” Instead, show it:

• “Saturday mornings are for books, black coffee, and pretending I don’t check my emails.”
• “I once took a train across three countries just to taste the perfect lemon tart.”

Specificity creates intimacy.

2. Show, don’t sell.
You’re not a product. You’re a person looking for connection. Talk about what moves you: a song that always stops you, a memory that shaped your view on love. These tiny signals create resonance.

3. Be clear about what you want.
International dating can get complicated fast be upfront about your intentions. Are you open to long-distance for now? Looking for something that could lead to relocation or a shared life abroad?

Being honest doesn’t scare off the right people. It attracts them.

4. Mind the photos they speak.
Choose images that show more than your face. Include one that captures your lifestyle (cooking, traveling, painting), one candid moment, and yes a clear, recent headshot. Avoid over-editing. Presence matters more than perfection.

5. Avoid clichés at all costs.
If your profile includes phrases like “I love to laugh,” “looking for my other half,” or “must love dogs”—delete them. You can still express those sentiments, but in ways that reflect you.

Your profile isn’t about impressing everyone. It’s about being real enough that the right person can recognize you when they see you.